2 Samuel 12:7. Nathan said to David, “You are the man! 

Every one of us reading this today struggles to confront and admit our own sin. How much of what we do every day – work, school, hobbies, play, entertainment – are actually selfish ways to never deal with our own selfish ways? Even doing very good things, “Christian” things, can be a way to avoid true self-awareness.

The truth is that denial of our own sin is the default of our hearts. King David was no different. Even when he had committed the most horrific sins (rape and murder) he was unable to face himself honestly. And so God graciously sent Nathan the prophet to David to confront his sin for him. Nathan told David a story about a wealthy man who had stolen another man’s one and only precious lamb and killed it. David was outraged at this man’s sin and condemned him to die.

2 Samuel 12:5. Then David’s anger was greatly kindled against the man, and he said to Nathan, “As the Lord lives, the man who has done this deserves to die, 

But then came Nathan’s haunting words to David: You are the man.

The indwelling life of Christ will not allow us to live in denial. The great work of the Spirit of Christ in us, like the work of Nathan the prophet, is to reveal to us over and over again the remaining indwelling sin, selfishness, and pride that rule our self-life. Our “flesh.” That force inside us all that pulls us back toward our self-centeredness, the world, and the law.

Christian, the only way to grow in Christ is to first be honest with yourself about yourself. We must first recognize the indwelling deadly self inside us all before we can appropriate the indwelling life of Jesus. This was true the day you got saved, and it’s still true today.

Are you struggling over your sin today? Are you exhausted trying to live up to your own standard? Are you torn apart by it? Do you often feel like you’re dying inside? Do you cry out like the Apostle Paul in Romans 7 “Wretched man that I am, who will deliver me from this body of death!”?


Kylo Ren lives in a state of denial.

That struggle is the loving guidance of Christ in your life. Like Nathan with David, it is the grace of God at work in you in a deeply personal way. Where there is no struggle there is denial. Where there is no struggle there is no growth in Christ. Life only comes through death. Success only comes through failure. The worst in us must be exposed before the Best in us (Jesus himself) can be revealed. To live in denial of sin is to miss out on what Christ has done for you and in you.

So how do we move forward from our denial?

Denial of the sinful self must be replaced with self-denial. And there is only one way for a Christian to live in the freedom of true self-denial: the CROSS. Trusting in your co-crucifixion with Christ:

“For you died” (Col. 3:3).

“You must consider yourself dead to sin and alive to God” (Rom. 6:11).

“I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ” (Gal. 2:20).

You simply cannot overcome the fleshly self with more commitments and re-dedications. No asceticism, self-flagellation, penance, or confession will do. These are just more denial. More self-centeredness. Only faith in our union with Christ’s death can transform our hearts. Only trusting in the completed work of God’s love on the cross will destroy the power of the unloving flesh. Only as we are made more and more aware of our sin (you are the man), and convinced more and more that we have died to that sin, will sin then die in our lives as we rely less and less on the self and more and more on “to live is Christ.”


Are you in denial over your sin?

You in Christ

How aware each day are you of the death of your sinful self? Are you still trying to kill what is already dead?

Christ in you

“Not I” must precede “but Christ” (Gal. 2:20). Where can you rely on Christ’s love today rather than trying to manufacture your own love?


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